This exercise will ensure you learn how to never run out of things to say.
Do you ever find yourself running out of things to say or scrambling for the next cool story to keep the conversation going?
Maybe you frequently experience women rolling their eyes or drifting off while you’re speaking.
Perhaps people tend to cut your conversations short, so they can leave and talk to someone else.
Thankfully, the ability to become a compelling conversationalist is a skill that anyone can learn.
Below, you’ll learn some mindset shifts to ensure you never run out of things to say to anyone ever again, plus a range of exercises to help your conversations hook people’s attention and never let it go.
The myth about running out of things to say
No-one ever truly ‘runs out of things to say’. We just run out of topics we think are ‘good enough’ for our audience.
Or perhaps your anxious brain has kicked into ‘fight or flight mode’, robbing you of your mental resources.
Either way, you can be comforted by learning this: Your vibe is more important than the words you say. It’s commonly stated that 93% of communication is non-verbal. So, if you can create a relaxed vibe with your body language and voice tonality, it’s likely she’ll be relaxed regardless of the words that leave your mouth.
If you’re creating a sexual, flirtatious vibe, this is what she’ll feel in spite of the words you say. If you believe whatever you have to say is ‘good enough’ purely because it comes from you, others fall into this frame.
Once you realise this is true, you can lower the bar for what’s ‘good enough’ to say and look forward to exciting women without having to try very hard at all.
Ultimately, the more you go out and practice staying in a conversation even when you’re struggling for words, the more comfortable you’ll become in these situations. Once you’re more relaxed, you’ll magically find words waiting at the tip of your tongue.
To improve even faster, try the exercise demonstrated in the video above.
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