Dating Coach Panel: American Coaches
Ice White assembled the world’s biggest panel of dating coaches for the fifth episode of the Dating Coach Panel, featuring Playing With Fire, Ross Jeffries, Michael Sartain, Justin Marc, Mr Locario, Modern Life Dating and Brandon & Jesse.
American Dating Coach Panel
For the fifth episode of Game Global’s Dating Coach Panel, we broke the record for the most dating coaches in one YouTube video! On this panel:
- Ice White (Game Global)
- Alex Vilenchik (Playing With Fire)
- Ross Jeffries (Speed Seduction)
- Michael Sartain (Men Of Action)
- Justin Marc
- Hashim Locario Smith (Mr Locario)
- Jonathan Hogwood (Modern Life Dating)
- Brandon & Jesse
The Role Money Plays In Dating
Alex Vilenchik (Playing With Fire) says that there is a sizeable advantage to being middle class compared to being broke, whereby you have a place to live, a car and the ability to take care of yourself. But beyond making $100K per year, there isn’t that much of an advantage that making even more money would bring you. Money is therefore overplayed, and when red pill guys start leveraging money to attract women, either directly or indirectly, they shouldn’t be surprised about the kind of women they are attracting and how they treat them. Money is not a part of the attraction formula, contrary to what a lot of red pill guys tend to emphasize.
Michael Sartain (Men Of Action) added that access to scarce resources is what really matters, instead of money in itself. While wealth gives you access to scarce resources, you don’t need money to have access to scarce resources. But where money is concerned, giving women money or compensating them for their affection is the wrong way to use it because when you lead with money, people expect you to keep leading with money. So the correct way to use money is to throw a yacht party or a mansion party. Michael gave an example about his friend, who rented out a villa in Tulum. Instead of paying girls to fly out to Tulum, he simply had the villa available for girls who wanted to stay there, and the girls would just have to pay their own way by paying for their own flights. 12 girls came over to stay in the villa with him, and he paid none of them. By doing this you can easily control the ratio, which turns everything into your favor. This is how Dan Bilzerian gets laid at his Ignite parties, where he could have 2,500 women and only 400 guys.
Mr Locario threw in his wisom by stating that every girl who is having sex with a guy because of his money is also having sex with a guy for free. Whenever you use money to get sex, you’re compensating for some level of sex appeal that you don’t have.
The Good Wife’s Guide
An old article called The Good Wife’s Guide has circulated on the Internet for a number of years. It is said to have originated from a 1955 article, although it is disputed as to when and where it was originally published. Ice White showed some of the advice from The Good Wife’s Guide for the dating coaches to comment on.
Some of the good advice:
- Be happy to see him.
- Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
- Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time.
- Don’t greet him with complaints or problems.
Some of the questionable, strange or funny advice:
- A good wife always knows her place.
- Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing an pleasant voice.
Ross Jeffries (Speed Seduction), the oldest dating coach on the panel who was born in the late 1950s, said that ultimately what a man wants is peace. Men are looking for peace, respect and contribution to his mission when in a relationship.
Recent Dating Coach Epiphanies
Ross Jeffries jokingly said that something he has learned recently is to make sure the girls you’re interested in aren’t transgender.
Michael Sartain’s recent epiphany was something he had to relearn a couple of times. He says that a woman’s attention is worthless, and it’s actually her compliance we should be aiming for. Most guys make the mistake of rewarding women with attention when a woman gives them attention, when actually you should be rewarding women with attention when they give you compliance. Michael provides the metaphor that attention is above the belly button and compliance is below the belly button. For example, if she comes over to your place, she used her legs to get there, so it is compliance. If she sends you nudes, she used her thumbs to send you the nudes, so that’s attention. You can’t have sex with her nude photos, but you can have sex with her when she comes to your bedroom. Michael Sartain also added that women’s necessity for attention is unbelievably extreme.
Why Kissing During Night Game Is A Bad Idea
Jonathan Hogwood (Modern Life Dating) answered that kissing girls in the club just gives her attention, and it’s better to focus on pulling her home.
Michael Sartain agreed that it’s better not to kiss girls in the club, but he has a rule that he will only allow women to do it once. When she kisses you, it could mean that she wants to sleep with you, but you ultimately need compliance from her in order to get her to come to your place. Having girls escalate on your publicly can also send a bad message to other girls around you, especially with their female friends.
Justin Marc added that kissing a girl could actually lower your value, especially in social circle environments.
Red Pill
Ross Jeffries has problems with evolutionary psychology in general because it is a weak science because it doesn’t fossilize, unlike physical evolution in species, so we don’t really know how psychology worked many thousands of years ago.
Michael Sartain explains that most red pill content is ‘trust me, bro’ content compared to evolutionary psychology. Rollo Tomassi was the first person to take ideas from evolutionary psychology and put it into red pill content. There are no evolutionary psychologists in the red pill, they just provide studies which red pillers take and extrapolate.
