Dating Coach Panel: 4 Coaches
Ice White assembled a small panel of dating coaches for the sixth episode of the Dating Coach Panel, featuring Michael Sartain, Ross Jeffries and Mr Locario.
Dating Coach Panel
For the sixth episode of Game Global’s Dating Coach Panel, we got 3 veterans of the dating space. On this panel:
- Ice White (Game Global)
- Michael Sartain (Men Of Action)
- Ross Jeffries (Speed Seduction)
- Hashim Locario Smith (Mr Locario)
Keeping Toxicity Out Of Your Social Circle
Michael Sartain (Men Of Action) explained how he categorizes people in his social circle…
- Circle 1: People who know everything about you
- Circle 2: People you really like, but don’t have all the gate codes
- Circle 3: People you don’t know well enough, but seem cool
- Circle 4: People you have to deal with but don’t want to deal with
- Circle 5: People you avoid under all circumstances
In Circle 1, you could have family members, close friends and business partners.
In Circle 2, you could have collaborators, people you hang out with on a regular basis, and you could do business with them.
In Circle 3, you simply don’t know the person well enough.
In Circle 4, there could be people in nightlife or other areas you just happen to cross paths with that you don’t like, but you have to deal with them anyway.
And in Circle 5, there are some people you might want to avoid at all costs. Michael Sartain gave the example of someone he knows who convinced a woman to kill herself, or a guy who assaulted several women. To bring the point home, he also explained that you can discern and not judge. For example, he had a woman on his podcast who has had sex with 900 men. It’s great for content and for the podcast. But he wouldn’t want to date her.
Mr Locario said that when you look at how things pan out in the long run, things will balance themselves out when the guys in your social circle naturally fall off.
Going Out With Hot Girls
Michael Sartain stated that it’s shocking how many girls are willing to help you meet other women, and how many will actually do it. Having a woman with you while you talk to other women is a cheat code, and most guys are missing out on it big time. If you go out with a super hot girl, you get to skip several levels. The best DHV (Demonstration of higher value) is when you have a hot girl next to you and she is the one telling the story about how cool you are.
Mr Locario makes the point that people’s guards are going to be down when they clearly see that you’re with a woman, making social interaction much smoother.
Provoking Audiences
Ross Jeffries talked about the idea of sensationalism, referring to his appearances on TV, such as his infamous 1992 NBC appearance, where he defended himself on the stage against hundreds of feminists, as well as his appearances on Dr Phil and The Wally George Show. Other examples of sensationalistic people are Pearl Davis (JustPearlyThings), Andrew Tate and Donald Trump.
Ross Jeffries used The Wally George Show as a training ground for provoking audiences, where he pretended to be a ‘conservative for Satan’ and advocated for prayer in the classroom (A big issue at the time) so that children could openly worship Satan at school. By the time he released his book How To Get The Women You Desire Into Bed in 1989, Ross Jeffries started using his appearances on The Wally George Show as an opportunity to market his book in a provocative way. Ross took it too far and was eventually kicked off the show.
Sensationalism and provoking audiences grabs people’s attention in a significant way, and is used by various figures, especially in politics and media, in order to put across ideas or agendas with a powerful force.
Why Ross Jeffries Didn’t Join Project Hollywood
During the events of Neil Strauss’s book The Game, Ross Jeffries, Owen Cook (RSD Tyler), Nick Kho (RSD Papa), Erik Von Markovik (Mystery) and Neil Strauss (Style) would hang out at Mel’s Diner on Sunset Boulevard, Los Angeles regularly and talk about game.
They asked Ross Jeffries to join Project Hollywood. Ross declined to join Project Hollywood, because he didn’t want to join what was effectively a fraternity house and preferred to live on his own peacefully. This of course was a wise decision, given the crazy events and drama associated with Project Hollywood as mentioned in The Game.
Ross Jeffries On Mystery’s Teachings
Ross Jeffries, creator of Speed Seduction, had a very interesting insight on Mystery’s teachings. While he doesn’t believe in ‘DHVs’ or ‘negging’, he does give a lot of credit to Mystery’s ideas as being hypnotic in the sense that they interrupt a women’s patterns. Ross explains that when you interrupt a women’s patterns, you create a state of temporary focus and suggestibility. Examples of Mystery doing this include:
- Ignoring the most beautiful girl
- Getting her girlfriends to laugh at the most beautiful girl
Ross Jeffries clarifies that when Mystery does these things, he is interrupting a women’s pattern of expectations, which confuses her. Confusion is a very powerful and common technique in hypnosis, which makes her more suggestible.
Furthermore, Ross shared an insight that nobody else has about Mystery… When Mystery starts negging a woman, she doesn’t know if she’s being insulted or complimented, and so it is designed to confuse. He therefore considers negging to be a confusion technique. When you pile confusion upon confusion upon confusion with a woman, it creates a very suggestible woman.
