Podcast #19: How To Have Sex With Her Soul

In this episode, Ciaran spoke to Pavitra, a fashion designer and self proclaimed goddess who lives in Bali.

They discussed:

The benefit of seeing sex as a playful game in which you connect to a flow of energy rather than a battle of conquest.
How society deliberately controls us by limiting our access to sexual energy
How porn helps gives people unrealistic views of sexuality and ultimately makes them miserable
The shame people are trained to feel regarding their sexualities
How men become more successful, confident, strong, driven, muscular, and masculine when they practice semen retention
How semen retention and tantric sex help men overcome deep rooted issues by forcing them to confront suppressed trauma
Why discipline, dignity, and integrity are highly attractive traits for men to possess
How doing the tough things that you don’t really want to do, will build mental strength and make you more attractive to women
The three way relationship she had with two men
The relationships she’s had with women
Why it’s important to give your partner freedom in a relationship and to not try to own them and control their behaviour
Whether or not monogamy is natural
Why pretending to be someone you’re not is a recipe for disaster in the bedroom
The benefits of tantric sex